Sometimes we have to slow down in order to speed up

I've removed all accelerator functionality from the php installation in hopes that if the server itself isn't running quite so fast it won't crash as often until I can fix a permanent solution. I shall be spending my birthday weekend (happy birthday to me) this weekend trying to reinstall everything and see if it solves the issue permanently, in the mean time, hopefully with the accelerators off the site may run slightly slower but may not crash, I hope.